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Society’s perceptions of human sexuality have changed in the past few decades, and continue to evolve. But despite progressing views and greater equality between the sexes in modern, Western societies, many women still feel pressure to conform to expectations over “proper” female sexual conduct. The influence of the “Double Sexual Standard” (the covert rule that men, and not women, can have multiple sexual partners) can be very distressing for many women particularly for those who have had several past sex partners.

Women who do not follow the Double Sexual Standard, such as the character Samantha in the Sex and the City series, run the risk of being labelled by others as a “slut” or “easy.” Negative connotations associated with words such as these act as a psychological and sexual barrier, deterring many women from being  comfortable with their sex lives. The pressure to conform to a prescribed standard of restricted and acceptable sexual behaviour places stress upon women that men do not experience. This stress can lead to negative emotions (such as shame and embarrassment) connected to a woman’s sexual activity, and may impact the level of satisfaction from sex (i.e. lack of orgasm). (more…)

Sexual problems come in different guises, are widespread, and can be distressing. Most sexual problems are not medically based, and in such cases individuals may look to psychological sex therapies.

Psycho-sexual counselling (sex therapy) works on the underlying causes of sexual difficulties, which are often based on stress, performance anxiety, intimacy issues, depression, boredom or problems in the relationship.

Sex Therapists will help you discover the sources of the problem, gain insight and develop techniques for overcoming sexual difficulties. Common sexual problems including loss of sexual desire, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, painful intercourse, anorgasmia, sex addiction and pornography addiction.

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