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\"grief<\/a>

By: Tim Green<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n

Been considering trying grief counselling<\/a>, but not sure if it’s for you?<\/p>\n

Writer Stephanie Nimmo<\/span> shares her experience of therapy for loss and bereavement<\/a>.<\/p>\n

My experience of grief counselling<\/h3>\n

My life changed overnight in December 2004 when my fourth child was born prematurely with a<\/strong> rare, life- limiting genetic disease.\u00a0 <\/span>The doctors told my husband and I that it was not likely that she would reach adulthood.\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

We focused<\/a> on making the most of our finite time with our daughter. But at the same time I<\/strong> found myself grieving<\/a> the child I thought I was having, while also anticipating the loss<\/a> of this child that I loved so much.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Life caring for a disabled child<\/a> was hard. But it was about to become even harder.\u00a0 <\/span>In November 2014 my husband was diagnosed with terminal cancer. <\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Chemotherapy gave us some time but he died a year later.\u00a0 <\/span>I did not have time to grieve as<\/strong> I needed to be strong for my other children.\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

My youngest daughter\u2019s health was deteriorating and sadly she also died<\/strong>, a year after her daddy.<\/span><\/p>\n

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I was devastated and numb. Our family had gone from six to four in just over a year.\u00a0 <\/span>I needed to hold my other children together and be strong, but I was struggling, too.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I contacted the hospice that had supported m<\/span><\/strong>y husband and arranged to<\/strong> see\u00a0 <\/span>one of their grief counsellors<\/a><\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

My first session of grief counselling<\/h3>\n

I went along to the first session and cried<\/a> my eyes out. The counsellor was<\/strong> lovely.\u00a0 He asked me to bring along some pictures of Andy to the next session, for me to talk about our life before his cancer diagnosis.<\/span><\/p>\n

I enjoyed the sessions, but they were really just skimming the surface when I was struggling to cope.<\/strong> I felt that I had only just begun to process what had happened when the sessions ended (the hospice only offered six sessions as the free service was over-subscribed). So that was that, I thought…..<\/span><\/p>\n

[Need more info on grief? Read our free “Guide to Bereavement and Loss<\/a>“.]<\/span><\/p>\n

Life intervenes<\/h3>\n
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photo by Pawel Szvmanski<\/p><\/div>\n

I struggled on and filled my time by taking on as<\/strong> many freelance work projects<\/a> as I could, just to avoid thinking. <\/span><\/p>\n

Then one day I ended up in a silly minor car accident<\/span><\/strong>. I was filling my car with<\/strong> petrol when a van drove into it and I found myself on the ground with a head injury. I was taken to hospital for checks, but there was no lasting damage, apart from a pounding headache from a concussion.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cYou do realise you have PTSD<\/a>,\u201d said my GP, as he wrote out a sick certificate for me. It had taken the shock<\/span><\/a> of the accident to make me realise that I was just masking everything by being busy. <\/span>I was running on empty and not dealing with my grief, and all of the feelings were like a pressure cooker bubbling away.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

If I wanted to build a new life, and be a good role model for my children<\/a>?<\/strong> I needed to fully engage in therapy<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Grief counselling, round two<\/h3>\n

I started seeing a psychotherapist who specialised in grief,<\/a> and began to unpick all the complex feelings<\/strong> I had around the loss of my husband and daughter.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n

We also looked at the anticipatory grief I had felt with my <\/strong>daughter\u2019s birth, and the stresses of trying to support my own children through their grief<\/a> while trying to heal myself.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was surprised at the feelings of anger<\/a> that surfaced. Anger with my husband for dying and leaving me alone to cope with everything. It was a comfort to be told the anger was okay, even normal.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I found seeing a psychotherapist<\/a> very different to seeing the counsellor. <\/strong>\u00a0We covered many things and went way deeper, going back to my childhood and behaviours, and patterns that had been set that were shaping my response to my grief now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Was grief therapy affordable?<\/h3>\n

The sessions were admittedly not cheap, and initially I worried about how I would pay for them.<\/strong> But I took it week by week, and somehow managed to fund it. As the work progressed I realised that therapy was not a cost but an investment<\/a>. If it helped me cope better, it would help my productivity with work.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes I even needed to go to sessions twice a week when I was facing difficult<\/strong> anniversaries. But knowing I had somewhere to go where where I didn\u2019t need to pretend everything was okay was such a great help.<\/span><\/p>\n

Did I tell my children I was going to talk to someone?<\/h3>\n
\"grief<\/a>

By: Alan Cleaver<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n

I was very open with my children that I was going to<\/strong> grief therapy<\/a>. I wanted them to know that it was okay to talk about feelings and look for support.\u00a0 <\/span>It did not feel like something to be ashamed of<\/a>, but something I\u2019m very proud of doing.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

What results did I see from therapy for grief and bereavement?<\/h3>\n

It\u2019s honestly the best thing I\u2019ve done.<\/strong> I don\u2019t believe I would be in this place I am in without my therapist. <\/span> I sleep better<\/a>, I have less nightmares and flashbacks, and I can process and rationalise what has happened to me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Most importantly, I can start to look forward and feel excited about life again. <\/strong>I’m sad at the loss of my old life, sure.\u00a0 But also excited at the potential of what I can still do.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

My tips for deciding on grief counselling?\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n

1. You need to be ready to really engage with grief counselling.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span> <\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n

I found that going so soon after my bereavements I was still quite numb and not ready.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

2. It\u2019s a rollercoaster, and don’t expect it not to be. <\/span><\/h4>\n

I don\u2019t believe there are five stages of grief<\/a>, it\u2019s not linear.\u00a0 <\/span>Grief can hit when you least expect it, and it can encompass all sorts of emotions. I was surprised to feel anger<\/a> towards my late husband for dying.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Be prepared to work at it. <\/span><\/h4>\n

It’s not easy. A good therapist<\/a> will not let you get off lightly, but the rewards are huge. It\u2019s put me in a much better place.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Don’t look for a friend, look for a good therapist.\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n

Yes, you need to feel happy and comfortable with the therapist you choose<\/a>, and you shouldn’t be afraid to change your therapist<\/a> if it’s really not a click.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n

But also you need to know they will challenge you,<\/strong> that it’s a relationship<\/a>.\u00a0 And it can take time to be at ease and have trust between you and your therapist<\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Invest as much as you can afford.\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n

I went to the therapist that I felt was the best fit with my needs. She wasn\u2019t the most expensive, but she certainly wasn’t the cheapest. I’m glad I stretched my therapy budget<\/a> a bit as once I started and realised the benefits it was about self-care<\/a>.\u00a0<\/span>
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Ready to try grief counselling? We connect you with highly experienced London bereavement counsellors<\/span>. Not in the capital? Use our booking site to find UK-wide registered bereavement counsellors<\/a><\/span> and online therapists<\/a> <\/span>you can connect with from anywhere.\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Still have a question about grief counselling? Or want to share your experience? Use the comment box below.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

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\"\"Stephanie Nimmo<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0is a freelance health journalist. She has written a memoir called\u00a0Was This in the Plan?<\/em>\u00a0about caring for her disabled child and terminally ill husband, and a children\u2019s book called\u00a0Goodbye Daisy<\/em>\u00a0which supports children grieving the death of a loved one. Find her on\u00a0her blog<\/a><\/span>, on\u00a0<\/span>Twitter<\/span>.<\/a>\u00a0and on\u00a0Instagram<\/a><\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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