{"id":125712,"date":"2022-06-21T11:00:17","date_gmt":"2022-06-21T10:00:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/?p=125712"},"modified":"2023-03-22T13:23:01","modified_gmt":"2023-03-22T13:23:01","slug":"emerging-adulthood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/emerging-adulthood.htm","title":{"rendered":"Emerging Adulthood &#8211; Why Does Growing up Feel so Stressful?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-125722 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-ron-lach-8844597-267x400.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"242\" height=\"363\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-ron-lach-8844597-267x400.jpg 267w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-ron-lach-8844597-400x600.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-ron-lach-8844597-600x900.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-ron-lach-8844597.jpg 709w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 242px) 100vw, 242px\" \/><\/strong><span style=\"color: #333399;\">by Claudia Cole<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"><strong>Struggling to adapt to your newfound independence<\/strong> as you transit to being an adult? &#8220;Emerging adulthood&#8217; brings a lot of change<\/span><span class=\"s1\"> and many challenges. So if you are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/i-hate-change-management.htm\">finding it hard to cope,<\/a> you are not alone.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">What is Emerging Adulthood?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First coined by <span class=\"s1\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jeffreyarnett.com\/ARNETT_Emerging_Adulthood_theory.pdf\">American developmental psychologist Jeffery Jenson Arnett<\/a>, &#8217;emerging adulthood&#8217; is a term used to describe the period between <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/teen-mental-health-get-help.htm\">adolescence<\/a> and young adulthood. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\" style=\"color: #333333;\">This typically refers to those between 18 and 25 who are yet to consider themselves to be full-fledged adults. <\/span><\/strong>Arnett explains,<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"color: #333399;\">&#8220;This period is not simply an &#8216;extended adolescence,&#8217; because it is very different from adolescence \u2013 much freer from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/helicopter-parenting.htm\">parental control<\/a>, much more a period of independent exploration. Nor is it really &#8216;young adulthood,&#8217; since this implies that an early stage of adulthood has been reached.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s3\"><strong>Note that the research was based on Western culture. Arnett does points out that <\/strong>emerging adulthood can be affected by the culture we are in.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">The 5 features of emerging adulthood <\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p6\"><span class=\"s1\">Emerging adulthood is defined by five key stages. While not every characteristic may apply to you, they are:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p6\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"color: #333333;\">1. Identity exploration. <\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p6\"><span class=\"s1\">Throughout this period, as a young person you get a chance to explore <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/who-am-i-identity-crisis.htm\">who you are.<\/a> It&#8217;s normal to find yourself questioning how you fit into the world around you. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p6\"><span class=\"s1\">2. Self-focus. <\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p6\"><span class=\"s1\">As emerging adulthood marks a time for self-discovery, it&#8217;s pretty normal to find you are primarily concerned with your own <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/being-happy-why-is-it-so-hard.htm\">happiness<\/a>. You might find yourself still free from big commitments and certain responsibilities that come later in adulthood, such as parenthood and marriage, meaning you have the time to be a bit selfish!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p6\"><span class=\"s1\">3. Instability.\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p6\"><span class=\"s1\">With so many new adjustments, being an emerging adult can often feel <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/living-with-uncertainty.htm\">unstable<\/a>. You may experience frequent changes in your living situations, or your job, or maybe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/sexual-partners-double-standard.htm\">keep switching romantic partners<\/a>. This is part of determining the person you are going to be.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_125714\" style=\"width: 410px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-125714\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-125714\" src=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-moose-photos-1036620-400x267.jpg\" alt=\"emerging adulthood\" width=\"400\" height=\"267\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-moose-photos-1036620-400x267.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-moose-photos-1036620-500x334.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-moose-photos-1036620-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-moose-photos-1036620-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-moose-photos-1036620.jpg 709w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-125714\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">photos by Pexels Moose<\/p><\/div>\n<h3 class=\"p6\"><span class=\"s1\">4. Feeling in-between.\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p6\"><span class=\"s1\">While as an emerging adult we have more freedom than teenagers, we also still have fewer responsibilities than older adults. So it&#8217;s easy to feel in a sort of limbo if we can feel more expectations placed on us, but also that we<\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u00a0are still seen as immature.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s3\">4. Sense of possibilities.\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s3\">This transitional period offers up a door to endless opportunities, so the future remains hopeful as everything feels possible.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">The common challenges you need to know<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Transitioning to adulthood provides more independence and possibilities, but also many challenges. These<\/span><span class=\"s1\"> stem from three main factors.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">1. Uncertainty.<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span class=\"s1\">For most emerging adults, thinking about the future can be daunting. Yes, the possibilities are exciting. But they are often accompanied by the pressure to start planning ahead and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/how-to-take-a-decision.htm\">make the right decisions<\/a>. With so many different paths to choose from, which direction should you take? And what if you don&#8217;t have a clear idea of what you want to do?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"color: #800080;\">According to <a style=\"color: #800080;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mentalhealth.org.uk\/news\/60-young-people-unable-cope-due-pressure-succeed%23:~:text=60%252525%252520of%252520young%252520people%252520(aged,overwhelmed%252520or%252520unable%252520to%252520cope\"><span class=\"s4\">The Mental Health Foundation<\/span><\/a>, six out of ten young people have felt overwhelmed by the fear that they are making mistakes.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3 class=\"p7\"><span class=\"s1\">2. Increased responsibilities.<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Part of gaining independence includes having more responsibilities. This may involve taking on new and important tasks that you aren&#8217;t familiar with, such as paying rent on time, or cooking a meal for yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"><strong>It can often feel like a lot to juggle, leaving you <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/learned-helplessness.htm\">feeling overwhelmed<\/a>. If left unmanaged, the additional stress can lead you to cope in unhealthy ways. For instance, you may start putting off or even<a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/avoidance-coping-depression.htm\"> avoiding your new responsibilities<\/a>, which can make matters worse. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">2. Societal expectations.<\/span><\/h3>\n<div id=\"attachment_125718\" style=\"width: 410px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-125718\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-125718\" src=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-pavel-danilyuk-7942550-400x267.jpg\" alt=\"emerging adulthood\" width=\"400\" height=\"267\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-pavel-danilyuk-7942550-400x267.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-pavel-danilyuk-7942550-500x334.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-pavel-danilyuk-7942550-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-pavel-danilyuk-7942550-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-pavel-danilyuk-7942550-2048x1367.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-pavel-danilyuk-7942550-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-pavel-danilyuk-7942550-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-pavel-danilyuk-7942550-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-125718\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">photo by Pavel Daniluk for Pexels<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Society has placed great importance on traditional milestones, especially for emerging adults. <\/span><\/strong><span class=\"s1\">On the one hand, milestones are a way to celebrate different key stages of life, but on the other hand, it places a lot of pressure to live up to certain <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/high-expectations.htm\">expectations<\/a> within a strict timeframe. Some of this can stem from our parents or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/dysfunctional-family-help.htm\">family members<\/a>, adding additional stress. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"><strong>So if you fail to meet certain milestones, no matter how unrealistic<\/strong> you know they are, it can make you feel like you&#8217;re <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/feeling-not-good-enough.htm\">not good enough<\/a>. It can also leave room for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/comparing-yourself-to-others.htm\">social comparison<\/a>, which can negatively affect your<a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/negative-thoughts.htm\"> self-esteem<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Anxiety in Emerging adults<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">With all the increased challenges it brings, the struggles of emerging adulthood can impact your mental health.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">According to <a href=\"https:\/\/link.springer.com\/chapter\/10.1007\/978-3-030-30687-8_8\"><span class=\"s4\">research<\/span><\/a>, young people are far more vulnerable to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/what-is-mental-health.htm\">mental health problems<\/a>, with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/signs-of-anxiety-disorder.htm\">anxiety disorders<\/a> being the most commonly diagnosed among emerging adults. <a href=\"https:\/\/link.springer.com\/article\/10.1007\/s10804-018-09324-7\">Compared to other age groups<\/a>, being in this age range also means the highest rates of <span class=\"s4\">depression<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"color: #333399;\">And mental health problems like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/anxiety-vs-depression.htm\">anxiety and depression<\/a> can in turn delay your transition into adulthood, or make it harder.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"><strong>They can also increase the likelihood of using<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/bad-habits-or-addictions.htm\">unhealthy coping mechanisms<\/a>. A 2016 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S1077722915000887\"><span class=\"s4\">review<\/span><\/a> found that emerging adults have higher rates of substance use, such as excessive drinking.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">How to take care of yourself during this life transition<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Becoming an adult can be a difficult transition, but here\u2019s what you can do to help minimise the stress.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"color: #993366;\">1. Review your lifestyle.<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">It&#8217;s normal to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/types-of-stress.htm\">experience stress<\/a> from time to time. But if it&#8217;s impacting your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/how-to-cope-life-is-crazy.htm\">ability to cope<\/a>, it&#8217;s worth looking at your lifestyle choices and how they contribute to your stress. Perhaps you&#8217;re <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/learn-how-to-delegate.htm\">taking on too much at once<\/a>, or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/sleep-disorder-tips-insomnia.htm\">losing much-needed sleep<\/a> on nights out. By making certain adjustments and improvements, it can help release some of the stress.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p7\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"color: #993366;\">2. Prioritise your time.<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p7\"><span class=\"s1\">Most of the time, when we&#8217;re experiencing stress, it&#8217;s because we have a lot on our plate. Learning to<a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/disorganised.htm\"> prioritise your time<\/a> can help you gain back control. A great way to do this is by creating a routine or schedule that works best for you, keeping you on top of your responsibilities.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p7\"><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><span class=\"s1\">3. Ease off the pressure.<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Sometimes, we\u2019re so eager to succeed we become unaware of the pressure we put ourselves under.\u00a0 <\/span><span class=\"s1\">Getting to grips with your independence is a process. You don&#8217;t have to have everything figured out immediately. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">If you make a mistake or things don&#8217;t go as expected, try not to be hard on yourself. Remember, it&#8217;s all part of learning. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p7\"><span class=\"s1\"><span style=\"color: #993366;\">4. Lean on your support network.<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p7\"><span class=\"s1\">Emerging adulthood is a vulnerable time, which is why important than ever to lean on your support network. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p7\"><span class=\"s1\"><strong>Too often, people assume that becoming a legal adult means you can no longer ask for help<\/strong>. That&#8217;s entirely untrue and can increase you<a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/how-to-overcome-loneliness.htm\">r sense of loneliness<\/a>. You can always <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/reaching-out-support.htm\">reach out for support and guidance<\/a> when needed, no matter what age. Taking the time to speak to those you love most can make all the difference. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p9\"><span class=\"s1\">What types of therapy can help?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>All <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/psychotherapeutic-approaches-the-main-schools-of-thought.htm\">types of therapy<\/a> can help you gain a stronger <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/a-sense-of-self-who-am-i.htm\">sense of self<\/a> and recognise and learn to use the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/find-your-inner-resources.htm\">inner resources<\/a> you already have.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/cognitive-behavioural-therapy-london.htm\">Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)<\/a> is certainly a popular choice. A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/short-term-therapy-vs-long-term-therapy.htm\">short-term psychotherapy<\/a>, research has shown it effective for dealing with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/stress-vs-anxiety.htm\">anxiety and stress<\/a>. It focuses on addressing and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/balanced-thinking-benefits.htm\">transforming the thought patterns<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/cbt-dysfunctional-behaviour.htm\">behavioural choices<\/a> that may contribute to your stress.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Need support with adulting? Our top team of<span style=\"color: #333399;\"><a style=\"color: #333399;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/adolescent-teenager-counselling-london.htm\"> London-based therapists<\/a><\/span> understands and can help. Or use our sister site where you can book <a href=\"https:\/\/harleytherapy.com\/?utm_source=Harley%20Therapy%20Blog&amp;utm_content=Post%20End\"><span style=\"color: #333399;\">UK-based registered therapists online<\/span><\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333399;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-124412 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/headshot-400x400.jpg\" alt=\"Claudia Cole\" width=\"137\" height=\"137\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/headshot-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/headshot-500x501.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/headshot-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/headshot-768x769.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/headshot-200x200.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/headshot-50x50.jpg 50w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/headshot-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.harleytherapy.co.uk\/counselling\/wp-content\/uploads\/headshot.jpg 945w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 137px) 100vw, 137px\" \/>Claudia Cole is a London-based writer and journalist. She is passionate about sustainable living, mental health, and wellbeing.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Claudia Cole Struggling to adapt to your newfound independence as you transit to being an adult? &#8220;Emerging adulthood&#8217; brings a lot of change and many challenges. So if you are finding it hard to cope, you are not alone.\u00a0 What is Emerging Adulthood? 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