EDMR stands for Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing.
An extensively researched and evidence-based psychotherapy (proven effective), it was originally designed to help people who had experienced trauma.
What is EMDR?
EMDR changes the way that traumatic memories are held within the brain. The goal is to lower the distress such memories cause, leaving you more able to cope with your present-day life.
What sort of trauma are we talking about? Trauma has many forms. It might be something big you experienced or witnessed, such as a death, natural disaster, crime, or an accident. But there are other things that can also leave the brain traumatised that are less evident, such as abuse, bullying, neglect, and abandonment.
“A therapist flashes a light in your eyes? You expect me to believe that is going to help my years of suffering?!”
Rumours abound about eye movement therapy.
But EMDR is actually a very carefully thought out, researched, and exact protocol of eight phases. Yes, you might be asked to move your eyes to a light. But only as part of a bigger process.
The first phase involves your therapist working at understanding your life history and what specific problems you are hoping to work with in your EDMR sessions.
What is the problem in your experience, what symptoms do you have that you feel come from that problem, and what behaviours stem from it that you’d like to change?
You therapist will also explain the EDMR process to you in detail, and you’ll be able to ask any questions you have.
The next phase involves preparation. You’ll learn ways to deal with things that upset you, including relaxation techniques.
Finally, you’ll get into the three phrases that are the actual EMDR process. At the beginning, you’ll be asked to select a visual picture of the distressing event you’ll be working on. You’ll then identify a negative belief that comes from this event, as well as a positive statement you’d prefer to believe. You’ll also be asked to notice physical sensations that the beliefs bring for you, such as an upset stomach or tense muscles.
The therapist then guides you through a series of eye movements and/or other forms of stimulation like taps or tones. You will do a few ‘sets’ like this, usually lasting less than thirty seconds, and after each time you’ll check in to see how you now feel. Most people find their stress lowers with each cycle.
The final phase is closure, and you are offered a chance to relax again, using those exercises you learned earlier.
If you are uncomfortable talking too much about your past because that in itself causes you distress, don’t worry. EDMR can involve far less ‘talking things through’ than other forms of psychotherapy and is quite experiential. The therapy will still be effective if you prefer to just speak in general terms over going into details of the upsetting past event.
Would you like to try EMDR therapy? Harley Therapy now connects you with therapists across the UK and internationally via Skype.
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