Self Esteem Articles
The mother wound is not a clinical diagnosis. But is a useful short hand to describe a very real psychological issue – being under mothered. Those with a mother wound are left to navigate adulthood without the base of confidence and security that enough mothering instills. [Do you feel your mother issues are so big...
You take care of your physical health – but what about your emotional and mental health? Are you taking the right steps to wellbeing? [Can’t find your way to wellbeing lately? And need support? Our new booking site helps you find a Skype or phone counsellor quickly and easily, no matter your budget or where you...
How can you get help with teen mental health? And what pitfalls do you need to look out for? Being a teenager is hard enough. If you also suffer from anxiety, depression, childhood trauma, or other mental health issues, it can feel overwhelming. But there IS help. How to Find Support With Teen Mental Health...
It’s a hard thing for a parent to notice that their teen has low self-esteem. What can you do to help? [For a general overview on what low self-esteem is and its symptoms, see our Guide to Self-Esteem.] How to Help Your Teen With Low Self-Esteem Problems 1. Halt the Advice. You love your teen. You want...
Do you find yourself saying ‘it’s all my fault’ whenever something goes wrong? Do you live with an endless sense of guilt and shame? And blame yourself for every relationship conflict? The problem with deciding “it’s all my fault” Taking responsibility when we have chosen an action that upsets others can be a sign of...
In our previous article we discussed what judging others is all about. Why we do it, the benefits and pitfalls of judging people, and how we end up the sort of person who is always judgmental in the first place. The next question becomes, how to stop judging others all the time? How to Stop Judging Others ...
You can tell yourself it’s only something you do with close friends. It’s just a bit of humour, or ‘you don’t really mean it’. But deep down, most of us know that judging people isn’t a good idea. It’s as if something inside of us feels not quite right with each snide remark that leaves...
Feel like a failure when a work presentation or first date doesn’t go the way you planned? If you manage to bounce back in a couple of days (or weeks if it’s something harder, like a breakup), then you probably have healthy amounts of resilience and self-worth. But if you constantly feel like a failure,...
Have you ever found yourself looking in the mirror after a challenging experience and asking yourself, ‘Who am I?”. If so, you have come face to face with your self-concept. What is ‘self concept’ in psychology? Self-concept is hardly a new idea. Ancient eastern practices, for example, often talked about self-identity, and the question of...
You feel your partner (or boss, or friend) is always picking on you. He or she says you are oversensitive. Who is right? Are you the victim of constant criticism, or are you being defensive? Is it really all his or her fault? It is possible to actually push people to criticise you — without even realising...
